Apparently, Christmas is among the most popular times for marriage proposals. I heard about a few of them over the holidays. Then, Valentineās Day is just up ahead. That got me thinkingā¦
The following statements contain things that a few mid-life women I know wish they had asked themselves and their potential spouse when they were dating or engaged⦠Sometimes, things that you donāt think about at all now might become issues in your future.
In between make out sessions, ask him strange questions like: Ā āWhat should we do about childcare when weāre both building our careers?ā
āHow and where will we spend the major holidays each year? With your family? Mine?ā
“Do you believe in God?ā
After you tell your friends, āOh my gosh, he is soooo hot!ā, call and ask him, āWill you still date me after weāve been married ten years? Twenty?ā
āDo you want to relocate to another state? Another country? How often are you willing to move for a career?ā
āDo you support abortion? Do you think itās okay to drive while buzzed?ā
If you havenāt yet, ask yourself these questions:
How important is it for you to live near your parent(s) and/or sibling(s)?
Does he fully support your work? Will he after you have children?
Does your groom-to-be or serious-boyfriend have faith? Do you? Can you do this life without it?
āYou accept the love you believe you deserve.ā
If your āloveā isnāt treating you as well as he should be, why keep dating him? Why do you think heās the ābest you can doā?
Have you fallen āin loveā or āin lustā?
During any of your dates, has he watched the TV at the restaurant more than look at you? No, not āall guys do thatāā¦
Be sure about your life mate. Be choosy. You deserve the best.
(Photo credit: Tiffany & Co.)
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